I’m really struggling. I feel like my ex husband tries to turn my kids against me and his 2nd wife after me. He is abusive mentally, emotionally, financially, psychologically, and he is a diagnosed sex addict. He is a serial cheater but somehow he is framed as the victim or the hero. He is incredibly exhausting to co-parent with because he counter parents and it is draining. He tries to turn the kids against me and I am the only one parenting. It’s exhausting to have him be the one my youngest wants when he is grooming him to believe that he is a model father and I am the reason everything goes wrong in life - because I have rules and boundaries. Whenever my kids come back from his house they avoid me or treat me like shit. I was married to the guy for 16 years. 12 of which were knowingly abusive but I thought God could change him. But I learned that he had free will. I have grown, and I am stronger! I am just having a weak moment where I feel stuck and that life is unfair that my kid is favoring their dad constantly. It wears me down sometimes. It is really getting to me tonight. Please pray for God to clear the negativity. I don’t want to feel like this. I need help.