Keep the faith and praying, let God have this, I did, I have a 22 yo old and we just kept trying. Actually what helped us find something for him to try to learn was a site, called cooljob.com. They list jobs all over the US and the ones we looked at were ones where he didnt need a car, and they supplied housing and some food. He did a whole season 8 months out in the Grand Canyon, now granted he made some money and he had to save it. They gave him lodging and he bought a bike. A great learning experience. One thing that saved me, trying to get him to focus and find a path was to remember that life is a journey and God has plans for him and they are bigger than you can imagine. You must trust the journey. Be who you are a mom, and guide, show jobs, try a part time to see if it is what he wants. It is so hard for boys I think. Well I just really wanted to share with you to keep your heads up that God has this.. I promise