I have been with this guy off and on for the past 9 years and right now we are off because of a fight and he moved his stuff out. we still talk just not as much but he wont tell me he doesn't want to be with me or that it is over. He doesn't like to fight and will calm up and i want to get it resolved. i am also very independent and know that i need to let go of how certain things are done. For the majority of the time we are great together and have a blast and very comfortable with each other. We get each other and click. now i just need prayers that we can get past this last fight and work things out and get back together and stop being so stubborn. please god he is the love i have always looked for and wanted. but if we wait to long i dont think things will be work out this time. i am sad but wont let people see it because i dont want them to know.