Please pray for me that I get better at forgiving and forgetting. My marriage with my husband has never been the same since the day I found out about his (online) affair. I have told him and myself countless times that I have forgiven him but every time we have a misunderstanding, even over little things, it turns into a big fight for no apparent reason though I think it is because of the resentment against him that I have been holding on to for so long.