Prayer Request
Please pray for my situation with my husband. He has been very critical of me for a long time and I don’t know how much more of this I can take. Tonight was really rough. I wish God could take the pain away from me. I’m tired and I don’t have the strength to walk away anymore. I’m not valued and appreciated for what I do. I only matter if I’m working outside of
The home, not by being a stay at home mom and tending to house and yard duties. My soul and mind are tired. I’m struggling to see clearly in this situation. I need help.
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I only have one child. He will be starting kindergarten in August. I’m planning on going back to work part time. However, my husband wants me to work at a certain place and at certain hours he likes. He also wants to take my pay and pay off the debt he wants paid. My plan is to work part time, save what I can and pay what I can, and go. I’ve had several conversations with him and he won’t change. I’ve talked with my family as well and they are very upset with what is going on.
Do you have children that are not in school yet? If they are in school, then maybe getting a job outside the home that you enjoy could be good. If financially you can stay at home, but your partner is not on board with that, it will not work, the relationship won't. So, if you do want to stay "home" with your children who are not in school, you may have to do it on your own, if you can afford it. If you can't, you are going to have to go to work either with him in the relationship or without him. Either way, if he is not appreciating your version of the family unit, and will not change, than you have to...and YOU CAN.