Joanne,
Ask for the Holy Spirit to fill you with peace and contentment....A peace that passes all understanding.
I'm also praying for your healing and peace of mind. 🙏❤️☮️

Prayers that you get a good job asap that you like and pays well 🙏

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's situation. I suffer from disabilities and severe chronic pain, so I totally understand where he's coming from and what he's going through. I understand how sad and heartbreaking it can be for both of you.
Has your husband tried any treatments or medications? I find that Tylenol arthritis really helps with my Osteoarthritis. But I'm not sure if that helps Rheumatoid 🤔 😕.
Sending prayers for both of you 🙏 ❤️

Men can have a hard time accepting help as they're born to be problem solvers, and they have the male ego along with it. Women are talkers, and by sharing their problems it helps them. Try to be patient and not take it seriously to heart.
Prayers sent 🙏 ❤️ ☮️😘