This is a very natural reaction for him, he is the man, the provider, the protector, are you married to him?
You need to pray for him, it is extremely hard for anyone to pretend they are happy when everything that makes them male is turned upside down. I pray God gives you patience, wisdom understanding. He cannot give you what he does not have at the moment. Pray for him, for God to open a door for him. Try not to become the Male in the relationship by taking care of all the responsibility, it will make him feel worse. Don't become his MOTHER in the relationship taking care of all his needs, this is very demeaning for a man. Just be supportive and the loving woman you were when he met you. God made you as helper, not fixer. Men need to be in charge and lead. They are very different to us females. Give him time and space and don't smother him. Godbless you.🙏💕💖