Please get involved in church activities or other volunteer activities that will help you move on. You will meet new people and automatically you will start feeling better--Trust me on that--I've been where you are. I think most of us have. It's no fun and it's certainly not easy to get through the heartache. It takes approximately 2 years to get through the grief cycle, but there are things we can do in the meantime that help the time pass faster. Please take one step forward and volunteer somewhere. This simple thing can lead you to miracles and a whole new life.