when you feel YOUR sinking, remember who has the LIFE RAFT, He will never let you sink. He is saying trust me! It's my life jacket I will never let you drowned, put your trust in me. THIS TOO SHALL PASS, do not listen to others only listen to my voice inside your spirit, man will fail you, I NEVER WILL

Good Morning. I am so sad this happened to you both. I had the same thing happen to our life. My advise would be, first of all if you both are born again believers you won the battle. Life in our senior years exspecially you will find both together you can make it in this troubled world, you need eachother. The enemy will target your relationship and try to destroy it. Please what ever you do sit and be honest with eachother of what went wrong. search inside the holy spirit will let you know what needs done. You can become so despondent and mad you cant't see the forest for the trees. And Love is the key, find what happened to de-rail your life and get it on tract again. You both are at our age and being alone is no good. And finding someonelse is totally wrong and being alone is wrong. We don't have much time left on this planet and going alone is not the answer. You both invested 22 yrs now find the LOVE you once had for one another and stop playing the games kids play. Forgive and let God into this relationship and mend the hurt and brokenness. You both deserve it, don't let the enemy ruin the rest of your journey in life. You both can do it.
I am here if either of you need to talk I can answer your concerns for we have been there and 56 years later we made it. Cry out to God both of you and pray together and stay together. Blessings sent your way.