Dear Missy, God says he has many graces to give us, but no-one asks me for them. Graces are not something we can earn but they are powerful gifts such as Willpower, Courage, that can help us overcome our weakness in our character. God says we must ask him, and we must be prepared to make an effort to overcome our wrongs. If we sincerely make an effort, God will supply the grace we need for victory over our weakness. Godbless you.