I HAVE FOUR ADULT CHILDREN THAT DO NOT TALK TO ME CAUSE OF THEIR USING DRUGS AND ME TELLING THEM TO STOP WHICH THEIR RESPONSE WAS WE DONT HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU WE ARE ADULTS..ALL FOUR OF THEM DO NOT TALK TO ME FOR A FEW YEARS EVENTHOUGH I MADE EVERY EFFORT TO TALK TO THEM SEND THEM BIRTHDAY CARDS HOLIDAY CARDS AND NOTHING FROM THEM I ALWAYS PRAY TO GOD TO BRING THEM BACK INTO MY LIFE AND HE NEVER ANSWERS MY PRAYER..I WAS A GOOD MOTHER, THEY ALWAYS HAD A ROOF OVER THEIR HEADS, FOOD ON THE TABLE, COULD COME TO ME WITH ANY PROBLEM AND WE WOULD DISGUSS IT NOT LIKE I WAS YOUNG MY MOM WOULDNT..MAYBE SOME OF YOUR PRAYERS WITH MAKE IT HAPPEN GOD SEEMS TO HAVE TURNED A DEAF EAR ON ME