I AM A WOMAN THAT IS TRYING TO KEEP IT GOING ON MY OWN , BUT I HAVE BEEN ON MY OWN , ALL MY LIFE THAT I CAN REMEMBER AND I MADE IT BY THE GRACE OF GOD AND I WILL MAKE IT RIGHT ON ONLY WITH GODS HELP , YOU DONT HAVE TO BE IN CHURCH TO BE A CHRISTIAN BUT ITS GOOD TO HAVE A CHURCH FAMILYYES WHEN YOU GET ALL PRAYED UP, THEN PLEASE PRAY FOR ME