I am a married mother of two and my husband is not my childrens father. He is not one who likes to b around kids and especially has a problem with my 5 year old little boy. He has cussed him and belittled him once and I told him that he better not do it ever again. I am so hurt because my little boys father only sees him every couple months and I know my little boy is hurting because of this. When I married I was hoping to marry a father figure for my children. I. Thank god that I have a supporting family to help me raise them but I pray that one day my husband will change because if he doesn't we can't stay together.