my son called me today and he ask his father to be in his wedding he has decline it has hurt my son . The reason he gave was because I gave him a hug at our daughters wedding we have not been married for almost ten years now but he punishes our kids if I am involved and that is not far to them that he cant forgive me for the divorce he has such a hard heart and he needs pray from everyone I didnt mean to hurt him and he hurt me alot . I was not a priorty in his life he would buy things for other women and he would write them love notes all the time I couldnt deal with the didhonesty any more and I feel guilty and I shouldnt all we did was fight and he would hurt me in alot of ways so I had to do waht was best for me at the time I also know divorce is a sin and I hope I will be forgiven please pray for my family so their will be some peace in it